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    "excerpt": "I received my first lesson in desirability politics via an unexpected text. A white boy from my high school, who wouldn\u2019t make eye contact in the hallways but somehow found my number, sent me a message one night: \u201cIs it true what they say about Asian pussies?\u201d he wrote, followed by a string of winking emojis.",
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    "title": "Decolonizing My Love Life: What I Learned When I Stopped Dating White Men"
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