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(https://www.vox.com/support-now?itm_campaign=feb-2025-wiki&itm_medium=site&itm_source=wikibanner) Join today             (/culture) Culture     What it’s like to be a trad kid Growing up in a “traditional” home means your future can feel predetermined.    by  (/authors/anna-north) Anna North     Feb 27, 2025, 12:45 PM UTC   Facebook     Link                          (Homemaker Putting a Pan in the Oven)  (Homemaker Putting a Pan in the Oven)   CSA-Printstock via Getty Images     (Anna North)  (/authors/anna-north) Anna North is a senior correspondent for Vox, where she covers American family life, work, and education. Previously, she was an editor and writer at the New York Times. She is also the author of three novels, including the New York Times bestseller Outlawed.      This story originally appeared in  (/family/369020/kids-children-generation-alpha-gen-school) Kids Today   , Vox’s newsletter about kids, for everyone.  (/pages/kids-today-newsletter-policy-childhood-policy-culture) Sign up here for future editions   .   In one of Sara Doan’s earliest memories, her mom is asking her to sort laundry. She’s about 6 years old, and as the first child in her conservative Catholic family, she’s already stepped into her role as manager of housework.   Soon she’ll be cooking, doing dishes, and homeschooling herself while her mom takes care of her seven siblings and her dad works six-day weeks at his auto-body shop, occasionally popping in for elaborate home-cooked lunches.  “It was unrelenting drudgery,” (https://people.cal.msu.edu/sdoan/) Doan , now a professor of experience architecture at Michigan State University, says of her childhood.  I reached out to Doan because I wanted to understand a group I haven’t heard as much about in discussions about (https://www.newyorker.com/culture/persons-of-interest/the-rise-and-fall-of-the-trad-wife) tradwives and their role in (https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/21/opinion/trump-trad-wives-podcasters-wellness.html) American politics and (https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/ng-interactive/2024/jul/24/tradwives-tiktok-women-gender-roles) culture : the kids who grow up in ostensibly “trad” homes.   On social media, tradwife influencers (think (/23960702/big-family-ballerina-farm-hannah-neeleman-dougherty-dozen-instagram-tiktok-influencers) Hannah Neeleman , who posts on Instagram as @ballerinafarm, or (https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2024/06/trad-wife-wives-nara-smith-estee-williams-dobbs-roe-escapism/#:~:text=Some%20trad%20wives’%20aesthetics%20hearken,Ballerina%20Farm%20in%20Kamas%2C%20Utah.) 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